Sometimes life can be become a little blurred. Maybe its because the days are just passing way too quickly. And its becoming increasingly harder to do the things that I love to do. I don’t know when the last time was that I actually sat and listened to some music, actually closed my eyes and immersed myself totally. I am surrounded by Nature too, yet I can’t seem to be able to reach out and touch it, or walk through it. It is the blur that you see out of the window when you are driving along the road.
But saying that I had my first, very brief, foray out into the fields on Sunday. I didn’t make it to the Dene that I love to wander through but it was so blissful to be out, to listen to the wind, to smell the grass, to feel the earth beneath my feet. It was a brief moment but even brief moments can feed the soul. And I took photos too, the wind often blurring the subjects that I was trying to capture. Nature seemed to be imitating my life. I hope that next time, and I hope that is soon, Nature is a little kinder, a little calmer, and maybe life may just be like that too.
At long last I am here amongst Nature. Everywhere looks so beautiful but I have not had a chance to walk in the peace and quiet of the fields and the little wood I live close by too. My mam had a fall nearly two weeks ago and I have been ensconced in her house, cleaning, cooking, keeping her company. But now there is light at the end of the tunnel and I have finally escaped, for a brief moment, and here I am, with Nature, thankful that life is starting to get back to normal. Although normal is not going to be the same kind of normal pre-fall. Extra measures are now in place, daily visits, chores need to be done that she cannot now do, more due to the risk of her falling rather then an inability to do them.
And Nature, never changes, always there, always ready to offer the peace and quiet you yearn for. It is amazing how time in the wilds can heal oneself, give you the boost that you so need. And of course as the seasons change the opportunity to take more photographs, explore the natural world, look for that which we seek in life.
This tree reminds me of a Japanese bonsai. Its shape is incredible. Was it chasing the light or did someone sneak along in the dead of the night and wind some wire around it.
Or maybe Nature is just teasing us, reminding us who is the Master and who is the Servant.
There is a sadness inside of me, an anticipation that one day my mother will no longer be here. I will no longer be a child, her daughter. I’ve watched her grow old this last year. And the realisation that the inevitable is getting closer has been gnawing away inside me filling with me with a constant dread. When my dad died it was so painful, and still very much so, but I had my mam, I was still someones little girl. What do I do when my she has gone too. The sadness, the emptiness, the hurt, the pain, how do you cope with it all. The photographs, the memories, the house I grew up in, they are all there, waiting to inflict the utmost grief on me.
And then there is the pain at the here and now. When we are young we all think our parents are invincible, that there is nothing that they cannot put right, that they are going to be around forever. You feel safe. But nothing prepares you for when they grow old. Nobody tells you that the roles will be reversed and it will be you that will look after them. The wrinkles, the old bones, the unkempt hair, the walking stick that helps to keep them upright most of the time. The times when they do fall, and you make that mad dash to their side, and struggle to get them up again. Like the dread of the inevitable these things are a constant in my life. So is the guilt. That’s something else they don’t warn you about. The guilt that you may not be doing enough for them, the guilt when you enjoy days out or holidays and they are sat alone at home.
These are the thoughts in my head that no-one ever hears. This is the pain I bear for loving my little mam.
Time steals on and escapes us, like the swift river that glides on with rapid stream.
Ovid, 16 BC
Two images I took today as I walked alongside a river. Water has mythical qualities and like the reflections you see on the surface I find it is a good time to reflect on the path that you take in life. Do you like what you see? Are you happy with the progress that you are taking on your life journey? I feel that the closer I get to Nature and all its elements the more I understand the journey that I take in life. In this busy world that we live in sometimes you need space, and peace and quiet, to rediscover yourself. In Nature you can do this. Maybe that is why I love it so much. Its almost like touching your soul. And maybe here be Gods.
Searching for Gods in Nature.
Wow, get me, outside in the big wide world. No close ups, just beautiful English countryside.
This photograph reminds me of tradition, of bygone days. It also reminds me of how Nature is in charge. We adjust to living alongside Nature, not the other way round. The landscape up here is as it has been for hundreds of years. We carve out little niches for ourselves always keeping a cautious eye on Nature. Or is it that Nature is keeping an eye on us.
These are two of my favourite images. Why? Because I love how Nature takes hold on abandonment. This is how our world would be if there were no humans. Not such a bad thing. Enlightenment can come in many forms.